The state all human beings want to find but never really do. It seems to always be out of reach, this is because love is only visible when we start to look inward. When we begin to uncover the clouds around our consciousness we start to feel real love. Real love isn’t the kind you have for a partner; it is something much more powerful.

“You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection” – Buddha

What is love?

A strong feeling of affection we have for everything. Love is one of those words that is talked about a lot in today’s world but experienced much less. Love is the feeling that binds humanity together; it is the warmth we feel lying next to a significant other or the tear in the eye of a man holding his newborn son. It is everywhere if you know where to look. Love can often be mistaken as attachment, especially in relationships and this will only lead to suffering. But going through attachment and realizing it doesn’t work only when relationships collapse, can lead a person closer to finding real love. Real love cannot be lost or die, it is within everybody; it is the state of being whole and impossible to remove form consciousness.

When we place love on something other than being in a state of “love” that is when heartbreak occurs because we become dependent on something for fulfillment. Love doesn’t require anything it just is. Love is the state that so many look for and never seem to find because it is already within and only needs to be uncovered.

A Life Without Love

Without love, all that is left is suffering.

If a person has been conditioned the wrong way then they may find that they can’t feel this inner love anymore. Because of this, they will continually seek outside validation to get a temporary high from gambling or drinking or eating. They have to engage in impulsive and destructive behavior because they feel they aren’t enough, it is heartbreaking. This leaves a person with bad body language, poor eye contact, and poor voice tonality. It is a very sad existence with more and more people becoming this way every day.

It is not natural and the behaviors stemming from a lack of internal love cause bad relationships. If you can’t even look a woman or man in the eye, or speak so they can hear you how can you start a relationship? It doesn’t work. This lack prevents people from experiencing the best things in life, the things every human being is entitled to but somehow stop believing it. Imagine operating at a 10/10 and you feel utterly happy, what is the urge you feel when you feel this way? To share it, it’s ingrained in us from birth we naturally feel good and the only thing we want to do is share this goodness with the world, this is what a loving life looks like, it is effortless and light but most think it isn’t possible to live this way. For most people, they cannot change into this state overnight, but they can change direction to get to this state overnight and that is critical.

What Causes a Life Without Love

Again, every human being is born whole and full of love but somewhere along the way we block part of ourselves off and aren’t whole anymore, this is what causes the lack of love. You cannot come from a base of love if you are not whole, it is impossible. Everybody you have ever talked to or seen or heard has had an effect on your and depending on the event a little piece of the real you could have been blocked off. It is this behavior modification that cuts off part of ourselves and the more parts we cut off the less love we feel.

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